Sunday, March 25, 2018

My Aunt FeFe

Everyone has that family member that is their personal cheerleader. My aunt Sophia Elaine Rogers Polk is mine. For as long as I can remember, she has always been on my team.
She was the one that took me to see my first movie. It was the movie Annie back in 1982.
She confessed to me years later that the real reason that she came to get me is because she really wanted to see it herself and she needed a kid to go with her so she would not feel out of place.
I forgave her, because I did that same thing to another family member when I wanted to see The Lion King back in 1994.
One of the real reasons why I love her so much is because she really stepped up to the plate for me when I entered my freshman year of college at the University of Central Arkansas.
During the first week of college, I called her up to see if she had any extra bed linen because I needed some for the twin mattress in my door room. She got so excited that she went out and bought me a brand new set. She told me years later that the reason that she had done so is because out of all of the grandchildren in our family, she had suspected that I would be the one to go off to college.
She said that if you really pay close attention to children when they are younger, you can pretty much tell how they are going to turn out to be. She told me that when I was younger, while the other kids went outside to play that I would spend hours at a time looking through the books that my grandmother had on her bookcase. I vaguely remember doing that.  I am glad that she remembered those special moments.
The last reason that I love her so much is because she gave the task of helping her name her only child. Ikina Shanea Kanu is her name. 
I was also present in the delivery room when her child was born in 1998.
She told the doctors that she wanted me to be there because might not ever have kids.
That was nearly 20 years ago. To this day, I still tell her that she may have cursed me by saying that.
Overall, I could not ask for a better supporter/ family ally. I will always be grateful to her for her love and support throughout the years of my young adult life.

Monday, March 5, 2018

Jody Gets Caught Up

It is no secret to some people that know me that I served as "Jody" for many years in my early 20s. I was very popular back then in my area of the country. I figured why would I waste the time of find my own girlfriend when I could have more fun with another man's chick? Yes, I knew that it was wrong, but I was having so much fun at the time doing it. 
Moving on........ here is I got caught up. In the early 2000s, I was having an affair with this nurse off and on for nearly three years. 
What I did not know was that she was sharing our relationship with her Caucasian co-worker. Well after their relationship had dwindled, and she had moved out of the state to take another job, her co-worker found me and she wanted to see if I would be good at "snow blowing and plowing". 
This was an opportunity that I could not pass up. I had to see if I could do just that. As it turns out, this woman would eventually become the best lay that I had ever had at that point. She into all sorts of kinky toy shit. Her ass was as ripe as and apple and as soft as cotton. She was also the woman that introduced me to "The Bullet".
If you don't know what that is, you'd better ask somebody!
I messed around with her for at least a year before she slipped up and told someone about us.
In a drunk moment, she told her girlfriends about this wild black guy that she had met. Instead of being all happy for her, they pumped her for more information and then they came and found me. 
In fact, they came to my residence and confronted me about it on some old racist shit. In so many words, they talked to me about how disgusting that it was for her to be messing around with me and that I was breaking up a happy home. It was at this point that I had found out that this woman was indeed married. I told them that I didn't force their friend to do anything with me and that she was the one that actively sought me out. I also told them that if they didn't like what was going on over at their neighbor's house that they needed to close their damn blinds. After the conversation had ended, I called up this mistress and I told her that her situation was too much for me and that we had to end it.
And that very night, I truly repented to God and I vowed to never doing anything so reckless again. 
I learned some valuable lessons from all of this madness. I learned that nurses are vindictive and that you should learn to keep your mouth closed around them.
Finally, I learned that nothing fun and wild ever lasts for very long. There is always and endpoint to the fun times.